Dating Communities
Communities for people looking to make connections and navigate modern dating. Discord hosts many of the biggest servers ranging from casual social spaces to more structured communities, with millions of members across the top servers for people seeking conversation and connection.
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Relationships & Dating 18+
253,802 membersMy community is dating discord server which is biggest discord server even without discovery we get 700-800 joins daily not NSFW but strictly 18+ chilll community
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r/dating_advice
4,400,000 membersThis sub is for advice about specific dating situations not general debates.

r/datingoverthirty
1,100,000 membersA subreddit for folks nearing or over 30 who are looking for dating advice.

Facebook Singles Dating
639,958 membersFacebook Singles Dating, Join Facebook Singles Dating App to connect with singles who are searching for soulmates and are ready to mingle.
SALT Christian Dating App Social
500,000 membersSALT is an online community bourne out of our dating app. It's a community of single Christians looking to meet other singles for romance as well as fellowship through our Social network, Table audio events, YouTube third wheel dates, in-person mixers, and SALT _ Life blog.

American & Canadian Girl's Single Dating Sites
387,317 membersExperience United States of American, Canada single dating sites! Welcome to my group!

Relationships & Dating 18+
253,802 membersMy community is dating discord server which is biggest discord server even without discovery we get 700-800 joins daily not NSFW but strictly 18+ chilll community

international dating & friendship
112,472 membersA Facebook group dedicated to international dating and making friends.

r/OnlineDating
105,000 membersEverything about online dating - your amusing stores, advice, and encouragement when you need it.

The Cage
90,000 membersThe Cage BDSM Community is where people who love BDSM, kink, and fetish connect. Free to join, it brings together real people who value authenticity, shared experiences, and meaningful relationships. With blogs, forums, personal ads, and live chat, it’s a kink-positive place for real conversation and real connection. Join us today.

Spiritual People Dating & Friends
60,932 membersWelcome To Spiritual People Dating And Friendship. As we share in our experiences and a desire to communicate with like minded people, this group is about getting to know people who are spiritual awaken at different levels in conscious awareness. It's about meaningful friendship and relationship.
Secret Dare
20,000 membersSecret Dare is a Truth or Dare online dating community. With a sexy online Truth or Dare game where you can play with the community using Pictures or Video Chat. You can express your desires and fantasies and meet people to realize them.

Onekiss
8,140 membersWe are a public and inclusive community server that aims to bring everyone together to share, connect, and have fun! We have something for everyone and you’ll never get bored. Our members are friendly and welcoming, and we are always looking for new people to join the family. Come and make friends, join some interesting conversations, and just have a good time with others.

BDSM Obedience Academy
6,000 membersBDSM Obedience Academy is a structured Discord community built around D/s dynamics, psychological dominance, and obedience training. We welcome Dominants, submissives, and switches of all genders who are serious about discipline, behavior modification, and power exchange. Members progress through task-based rituals, public accountability, and rank systems designed to foster trust, devotion, and long-term sadomasochistic relationships. Our Academy blends protocol, kink education, and deep emotional control.

Amoura Hub
1,187 membersAmoura Hub is a clean and friendly social community built for people looking to make real connections in a relaxed environment. It focuses on simple, respectful conversations where members can meet new people, chat freely, and build friendships at their own pace. The server is strictly 18+ and maintains a safe, SFW space with no drama or toxic behavior. Members can enjoy active chats, voice channels, interactive bots, and matchmaking features designed to help people connect naturally.

Socializer School
191 membersThis is THE place to learn how to approach & attract women authentically so you can get a girlfriend in 60-90 days.

is an interpersonal relationship advice and assistance community that confronts personal conflicts, promotes participation in self-discovery and responsibility, and is a place to share dating tips, love advice, and relationship resources.

eNotAlone.com is a place for relationship advice, online dating, and long distance relationships.

DateIQ 2.0 Membership - a premium dating advice community on Discord with coaching and structured programs.
