LGBTQIA Communities
Communities for LGBTQIA+ people covering social connection, identity, mental health, and advocacy. Discord is a major hub with large and small servers for everything from general queer community to specific identities and interests, alongside subreddits and dedicated platforms for support and discussion.
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r/BisexualMen
21,100 membersThis page is a supportive place for bisexual, bicurious, polysexual, and pansexual men (whether they be cis, trans, or nonbinary), even those who are unsure of their orientation or questioning it. Give and get advice, rant, and share your struggles and victories.

r/latebloomerlesbians
65,300 membersSome of us are married to men, some of us are dating them, and some of us are chronically single. But we well have one thing in common: we are late to the coming out game. A place for queer, gay, bi, pan, lesbian and questioning humans to share, give advice, and receive support! We welcome discussions that explore what life looks like or could look like as a “late bloomer” lesbian. This includes conversations around Sexual Orientation, sensuality, life, friendships, random thoughts, fun, and more.
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r/trans
682,686 membersWelcome to r/trans! This is a safe space for transgender people to discuss their lives and issues that surround them, find affirmation, and discover community. This is a radically inclusive subreddit for everyone under the trans umbrella; if you are binary, non-binary, genderqueer, agender, GNC, questioning, or any combination, this space is for you. You don't need to be trans to comment here, but this is not the place for questions or statements of opinion from outside of the community.

r/askgaybros
283,000 membersAsk gay bros anything. This is a Reddit community where anyone can ask the manly men for their opinions on various topics. Advice. AskReddit style questions. AMA. ELI5. Everything in between.

r/gaymers
223,000 membersGaymers is a community for LGBT+ally redditors. We regularly play multi-player games together, talk about how totally rugged David Hayter is, how sexy Samus is in her zero suit, talk about how we love big Switch sessions, and playing with an XBone all night long.

r/ainbow
154,000 membersA free area for the discussion of issues facing those who identify as gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender, and all other sexual or nonsexual orientations and/or gender identities. Post links to articles, self-posts, photographs, experiences and whatever else is important to your experience of queer life. We encourage you to treat others with respect, start and/or engage in robust discu

r/NonBinary
139,000 membersA subreddit for people of every stripe who feel that they don't fit into a preference-binary or gender-binary culture.

/BisexualTeens
130,000 membersWe are a community for advice, memes, and relatable content for anyone who wishes to join. We don't judge if you are gay, pan, straight, trans, bi, or if you don't know. Above all else, this is an LGBTQ+ safe space.

r/Transgender_Surgeries
120,415 membersA sub for the discussion of surgeries, surgery results, surgeon satisfaction and the costs incurred by transgender people. RULE 5: THIS SUB IS FOR AND BY TRANS PEOPLE. Partners, caregivers, etc, with a legitimate interest in surgery may post if it's of clear benefit to a trans individual or the community. Intersex people with have related surgical interests may post. **DO NOT POST OTHERWISE.**

r/AskGayMen
82,100 membersIf you have a question for gay men or men who have sex with men...well this would be a good place to ask it.

r/latebloomerlesbians
65,300 membersSome of us are married to men, some of us are dating them, and some of us are chronically single. But we well have one thing in common: we are late to the coming out game. A place for queer, gay, bi, pan, lesbian and questioning humans to share, give advice, and receive support! We welcome discussions that explore what life looks like or could look like as a “late bloomer” lesbian. This includes conversations around Sexual Orientation, sensuality, life, friendships, random thoughts, fun, and more.

r/bisexualadults
60,800 membersA subreddit for adults looking to discuss their biSexual Orientation and some of the issues that may arise from it.

r/AskGayBrosOver30
56,700 membersAskGaybrosOver30 is a place for supportive and friendly conversations between over 30 adults.

r/genderqueer
46,900 membersFor folks who don't fit the gender binary or are interested in questioning it. Please feel free to join us and discuss!

r/LesbianGamers
45,400 membersAn inclusive community for women who love women, who love gaming. Trans Rights! Black Lives Matter!!

r/TransLater
45,300 membersWhile /r/asktransgender and other trans groups are great, some of us have families, partners, careers, and all the other trappings of not being in our 20s any more. Here's somewhere to talk about these things and the issues we face in transitioning. Please be aware of our rules. Note that all new accounts will be moderated.
Out In Tech
40,000 membersOut in Tech is the world’s largest non-profit community of LGBTQ+ tech leaders. We create opportunities for our 40,000 members to advance their careers, grow their networks, and leverage tech for social change.

r/detrans
23,000 membersWelcome all detransitioners/desisters and self-questioners. Please self-identify your detrans status with user flair, or your content will be removed (medical or legal professionals, please message mods for an exception). Post anything about gender detransition. Ask questions, share memes, inspire, vent, wonder, etc.

r/BisexualMen
21,100 membersThis page is a supportive place for bisexual, bicurious, polysexual, and pansexual men (whether they be cis, trans, or nonbinary), even those who are unsure of their orientation or questioning it. Give and get advice, rant, and share your struggles and victories.

r/RobloxAvatars
19,500 membersWelcome to the most inclusive Roblox Avatar community! A place where we celebrate diversity, acceptance & provide a safe wholesome space for everyone from many background to express themselves in many varieties of ways. Whether you're new to Roblox, a seasoned creator, or starting out, a furry, member of the LGBTQ+, we all welcome you with openness. Our goal is to promote kindness, respect, friendliness; Allowing players to show there creations, discover, & or create/discuss meaningful connections!

r/NonBinaryTalk
18,100 membersWelcome! This subreddit is a 'general forum' where non-binary people can come together to socialize casually and discuss any topic. Politics are prohibited. Talking about politics is discouraged and should be directed to /r/genderqueer instead.

r/questioning
15,100 membersA friendly community for those questioning their own Sexual Orientation and gender.

r/GayChristians
11,900 members**Hello and welcome to GayChristians!** This subreddit exists to provide a place for gay Christians to come and discuss topics that are specific to us. It is a place of love, respect, community and acceptance. We seek to provide a place for Christians to come and ask questions, seek help or clarification and discuss topics. Whether you are out and proud, still in the closet, fully understand your Sexual Orientation or are just beginning to figure things out - this place is here for you.

r/Nonbinaryteens
10,500 membersr/teenagers but for non-binary people and/or anyone who doesn’t identify with a gender

r/QueerWomenOfColor
7,800 membersWant a place to talk about your day with queer women who share similar cultural backgrounds? Maybe you have a few questions and need some advice. On Queer Women Of Color you can post and discuss anything from politics to celebrity news.
Hexagon UX
7,500 membersHexagon is a non-profit aimed to empower and support womxn and non-binary folx in UX through community, events, and mentorship.

r/FTMOver30
6,200 membersA place for trans-masculine folk over 30 to come together for support and discussion.

r/TransMasc
5,400 members/r/TransMasc is a subreddit for all transmasculine people; whether you are FTM, pre-everything, nonbinary, genderqueer, or any other transmasculine identity.

r/olderlesbians
4,900 membersAn inclusive place for Older Lesbians to talk about issues important to us, dispense wisdom and swap stories.

r/intersex
4,900 members/r/intersex is the place to talk about intersex topics with intersex Redditors. Everything inter* is permitted as long as it plays along our rules! (But remember, we are no substitute for real medical professionals.)

r/TransChristianity
4,600 membersThis subreddit is dedicated to providing a space by trans people and for transgender people to discuss, question, or complain about all things Christianity. While the focus of this subreddit is on trans Christians, trans non-Christians and cisgender people are absolutely welcome to participate. Please leave transphobia at the door.

r/transgenderteens
3,600 membersA subreddit for support and advice specific to transgender teenagers.

r/transfitness
3,100 membersThis sub is for the promotion of healthy fitness goals, advice, and encouragement for the transgender community. All are welcome here that wish to participate in a positive manner.

r/ActualLesbiansOver25
2,900 membersWe're lesbians over 25 who felt like the sub r/ActualLesbians was excellent, inclusive of all WLW, did a good job of enforcing no TERFS, & wanted to replicate that for the 25+ crowd. Simply put, WLW life in adulthood is much different, and as much as we're a part of r/ActualLesbians, we wanted a space where WLW 25+ can discuss more specific 25+ things separate from teens or the younger crowd. We do NOT tolerate TERFS, anti-trans rhetoric, or any form of bigotry.
Arocalypse
2,810 membersWelcome to our aro forums! Discuss romanticism, relationships, and aro culture with others.

r/actual_detrans
2,700 membersAn alternitive to r/detrans that provides support to detransitioners, reidentifiers, retransitioners and questioners in an environment free from gender critical ideology and rhetoric. If you are in crisis, hotline numbers can be found at <https://www.suicidestop.com/call_a_hotline.html>

r/LGBT_Muslims
2,700 membersWe are a community of LGBTQ+ Muslims. We are a growing community around the world, as courageous individuals and organizations create new spaces for like-minded individuals to embrace these two aspects of their identities. We are a safe space for LGBTQ+ Muslims to share their personal experiences and struggles. While we welcome our allies, this space is primarily for LGBTQ+ Muslims and expect others to be respectful and compassionate.

r/MTFButch
2,200 membersA space for all trans butches, dykes, bois, soft butches, futches, or anyone else who feels safe here. Memes, selfies, rants, or anything else you think would be relevant! Join our discord!

Nuka Gals - Fallout 76 All Platforms 🏳️🌈
2,200 membersNuka Gals is a mature women's and LGBTQ+ cross platform group, making it easy for the women and LGBTQ+ of the wasteland to make new friends, team up, and help each other to survive. We're a LGBTQ+ positive community, you are expected to respect everyone in this group. While this group is only for women and LGBTQ+ our Discord is open to everyone. If you'd like to know how to join please send a message to our page Nuka Gals.

r/nonbinarylesbians
2,100 membersA home for (almost) anything that might interest nonbinary/trans/GNC lesbians and adjacent queer folk.

r/tabletopgaymers
1,700 membersA community for gender and sexual minority individuals and their allies who enjoy board, card, pen and paper, tactical, or other physical table-top games.

r/lesbiancoders
1,200 membersSpace for wlw who code to post discussion, links, memes, discord servers, q&a, etc. about programming and your experiences in STEM

r/LGBTElders
1,100 membersA place for gay men and women to get together and talk about issues concerning aging life experiences more than a decade ago. This subreddit is intended, but not limited to gay men and women in their late 20s, 30s, 40s and 50s and above. This is not a subreddit for "coming out" or "first time" discussions. We have "been there" and "done that", so let's move on. This is a "we've seen it all" space to celebrate the long lives and wisdom of the mature LGBT community.
Gay+ Men Meditating
733 membersA friendly and safe group for gay+ (gay, bisexual, bi-curious) men who practice meditation and yoga to make friends, support and encourage each other and to practice yoga and meditation together online.

Lesbians Who Tech Montreal
656 membersLesbians Who tech is committed to convening queer women in technology (and our allies) in a vibrant and inclusive community. We work together to promote the visibility and inclusion of women, LGBTQ people, and people from other backgrounds under-represented in technology. If you work to move this mission forward, we want you on our team. Nobody ‘has to be’ a lesbian to be in this community. We use the term to honour those who crossed a firewall with it. Lesbians Who Tech s’engage à offrir un environnement dynamique et inclusif aux femmes queer en technologie (et leurs alliés). Nous travaillons ensemble à promouvoir la visibilité et l’inclusion des femmes, des personnes LGBTQ, ainsi que de ceux et celles qui sont sous-représentés dans le domaine des technologies. Si vous avancez dans le même sens que nous, nous vous voulons dans notre équipe. Il n’est donc pas nécessaire d’être lesbienne pour joindre la communauté Lesbians Who Tech. Le terme Lesbienne est utilisé pour honorer les femmes qui ont défoncé le plafond de verre et s’identifient comme tel.

r/ask_detransition
598 membersWelcome to r/ask_detransition a subreddit dedicated to the sensitive topic of detransition while allowing people who are not specifically detransitioned or questioning to post and discuss the topic. Allies or just those curious alike, we ask that you flair yourself accordingly and keep in mind that this sub's focus is specifically about detransition. Please abide by the rules of the subreddit.
Queer in AI
500 membersMore than 500 folks are in the Queer in AI slack community. Our slack consists of dedicated channels for research, advice, announcements and discussion of many topics.

r/Ask_Intersex
422 membersThis is a place to ask questions you have about intersex people and our experiences. If you're intersex and want to speak about your experience, feel free to do so here!

r/androgynouspoc
412 membersA place for nonbinary people of color to connect, vent, ask for advice and see others who look like them! Feel free to flaunt your beauty and express yourself!

r/ftmlife
409 membersA place for ftm and other transmasculine-identifying folks to discuss all aspects of post-transition life: relationships, hobbies, careers, family, mental health, etc. There is no One True Way™ to be post-transition; people will be taken at their word when they say they are done with their transition, regardless of what they have or have not done. Non-Op and non-HRT folks welcome!
LGBTQ Marketers
147 membersWe are a community for LGBTQ+ digital marketers to network, find support, and share knowledge. All levels of career experience welcome. Meet your queer peers here!

r/elderqueers
144 membersWelcome to r/elderqueers! This sub is for those who feel lost and "old" in the other queer subs, and is geared towards those age 30 and up, but everyone is welcome! This is a safe space.

Rainbow Developers
75 membersWelcome to Rainbow Devs, a vibrant community of passionate developers committed to embracing diversity and creativity in the world of coding! Our mission is to foster an inclusive space where developers of all backgrounds can collaborate, learn, and shine in their coding journey. We believe that diversity strengthens our code, making it more innovative and impactful.
The Ace and Aro Advocacy Project (TAAAP) is an organization dedicated to providing resources on aSexual Orientation and aromanticism to the public. TAAAP operates on a local level by working with other LGBTQ+ organizations in the DC Metro Area, as well as on the national level by working with other ace and aro advocates to further the national movement.TAAAP’s goals are to increase the visibility of ace and aro identities, to provide resources on aSexual Orientation and aromanticism to professionals (e.g. doctors, mental health professionals, educators), and to support ace and aro members of society. Please visit our projects page to see what we are currently doing to further these goals.
The LGBTQ in Technology Slack is a space for LGBTQ people in technology to chat and support each other. We strive to keep it safe, positive, and confidential. Friends and allies: we appreciate your support, but this space is for us.
A space for LGBTQ people in technology to chat and support each other. We strive to keep it safe, positive, and confidential.
A news and entertainment site for LGBTQ+ women and other trans people. Covers dating, fashion, politics, television, film and whimsy with a thriving online community of smart, engaged queer folks.


